Secret Language of Birthdays & Relationships

April Twenty-Eighth The Day of Steadfastness
IS CALLED
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The Day of Steadfastness
Steadfast, Dependable, Solid

Report

April 28 people are capable of using their physical, emotional or psychological presence in an imposing, if not intimidating, way. Among the most determined people of the whole year, they will not give up once they have embarked on a project or a course of action. Against great odds, seemingly contrary to their best interests and that of those closest to them, they will hold out, no matter how persuasive or commanding their opponents may be. The drive to manifest their position is powerful, and what they stand for not easily forsaken. Yet, because April 28 people are good negotiators and politic in their daily lives, they often give the impression of being reasonable, even tractable. Though they appear accommodating, however, those who deal with them eventually discover that there is in fact only one possible compromise acceptable—that which is desired by the April 28 person. Promises will be made, then later reinterpreted, bent or even broken. The ability of April 28 people to wait is almost inexhaustible—in fact, it is usually their opponents who wind up exhausted! April 28 people attend to their personal appearance and dress with great care. They realize instinctively that a first impression is often the most lasting one; consequently, they will avoid losing the opening gambit of any life situation. If mothers, they place their stamp squarely on the home, structuring the daily life of the family with respect to meals, hours, chores and personal cleanliness; if fathers, they will lay down the law and fully expect to be obeyed. Life can be very difficult for everyone concerned if one or all of their children are more changeable, flexible types, who resent such unyielding attitudes. More highly evolved April 28 people make superb friends, lovers and parents because of their steadfastness in adversity and their utter dependability. They do well in positions of authority because they stay in tune with the feelings of their subordinates. Instead of ruling through fear, they guide and lead with vigorous, self-confident insight, thus avoiding catastrophe. Less highly evolved April 28 people manifest negative results over and over again through their stubbornness and intractability. It is important for April 28 people to take themselves less seriously. They must beware of arousing antagonism in others by acting in a superior manner. Fighting battles for the disadvantaged and downtrodden can prove far more rewarding. Finally, those born on this day must learn to let go once their children, friends or associates are capable of doing without their support. Learning not to be needed, to not always be in demand, is important if April 28 people want to develop the philosophical objectivity needed to occasionally rest and observe life’s passing scene.

Numbers

Those born on the 28th of the month are ruled by the number 1 (2+8=10, 1+0=1), and by the Sun. Those ruled by the number 1 are typically individual, of a definite viewpoint and eager to rise to the top. Because, as mentioned earlier, April 28 people tend to be dominant types, they must beware of being overcome by their power drives. The Sun carries in its symbolism strong creative energy and fire, which should be directed steadily (the positive effects of Venus, ruler of Taurus) rather than allowed to sporadically flare out of control.

Archetype

The 1st card of the Major Arcana is The Magician, who symbolizes intellect, communication, information, as well as magic. Over his head is an infinity symbol, which in some Tarot decks takes the form of a hat, in others a halo. Many interpretations may be drawn, one of which is that the Magician recognizes the cyclical and unending nature of life and is empowered by this understanding. The positive traits suggested by this first card include diplomatic skill and shrewdness but, negatively, lack of scruples and opportunism.

Health

Generally, those born on April 28 are possessed of a robust constitution but may nonetheless be vulnerable to heart problems, high blood pressure or glandular imbalances, particularly of the thyroid and adrenals. The whole trick for April 28 people is to keep their energy flowing, avoiding both blockages and flareups of suppressed emotions. Overeating may be a real danger because of a love for a wide variety of foods; the eating habits of April 28 people must be structured and disciplined to avoid major physical problems. The physicality of this day should be directed toward competitive sports of all kinds.

Advice

Try to take yourself less seriously. Cultivate a greater capacity to have fun and be lighthearted. Think very carefully about the effect your ideas and manner have on those around you. Above all strive to recognize the feelings of others and remain sensitive to their needs.

Meditation

Is it possible that the Earth turns, the Stars dance, the Comets sing, not because of gravity and Einstein’s laws but because of the power of Love?