Secret Language of Birthdays & Relationships

October Twelfth The Day of the Grand Gesture
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The Day of the Grand Gesture
Socially Astute, Generous, Dependable

Report

October 12 people are dominant individuals who like to be the center of attention. Their people skills are highly developed and they mix well in a variety of settings, common or elite. Since those born on this day are proud of the quality of their work, they wish to be appreciated by the best minds around them regardless of social station. The instincts of October 12 people for finance are excellent, and an endearing quality is their tendency to share money with family and friends who encounter difficulty. Those born on this day hate meanness and pettiness, preferring to give of their time or financial resources in a direct manner, making a truly grand gesture which is somehow free of condescension. Thus October 12 people make it easy for others to accept what they choose to give, although they themselves may find it difficult to similarly accept from others. Learning as early as possible in life to both give and take, in an easy manner, is important for them. Although those born on this day value tradition strongly, no one would call them conservative in thought, word or deed. Extroverts, they are blessed with comic wit and have a flamboyant streak which they do not hesitate to indulge. This impulse can be expressed in any area of their lives, from sexual escapades to social nonconformity. For them the world is a stage on which their own personal drama is to be enacted. They manage to do this, however, in a very natural fashion, and rarely give the impression that they are creating shenanigans merely to attract attention. On the other hand, October 12 people must beware of hubris, bringing about their own downfall through a disregard for the consequences of their actions on the lives of others. Although in general they are knowledgeable in regard to the law and social traditions, they may like to believe that they can place themselves above the rules from time to time, particularly in their private lives. Those born on this day can truly be a curious admixture of giving and selfish qualities. Indeed, their tendency to advance or promote their own wants and needs can arouse resentment in their partners. In matters of love, they are a bit “dangerous.” When things go wrong in their relationships, October 12 people demonstrate resilience and usually manage to escape lasting hurt, although the same may not necessarily be true for the other person involved. Because of their high degree of competence and social expertise, those born on this day can become a rock of strength for their colleagues, friends and family. Yet discharging responsibilities while being mindful of and responsive to the deeper needs of others remains their greatest challenge.

Numbers

Those born on the 12th of the month are ruled by the number 3 (2+1=3), and by the expansive planet Jupiter. Those ruled by the number 3 are often ambitious, sometimes dictatorial. October 12 people in particular must therefore try to avoid being too bossy or aggressive. Those ruled by the number 3 also like to be independent, so some October 12 people may feel the need to abandon the security of a steady job in order to freelance. The jupiterian qualities of the number 3 grant October 12 people a highly positive and optimistic attitude, and in combination with Venus (Libra’s ruler) a touch of idealism.

Archetype

The 12th card of the Major Arcana is The Hanged Man, who dangles by his foot in a head-down position. Though such a position seems helpless, The Hanged Man is nevertheless spiritually powerful and deeply thoughtful. The positive attributes of this card are recognizing limitations and overcoming them, as well as simply being human; negative aspects are spiritual myopia and restrictedness.

Health

Those born on October 12 must beware of taking their good health for granted. Regular checkups are a must, thus allowing a trusted family physician to monitor their health. October 12 people usually like the good things in life, so their diets may be a bit weighted toward rich and tasty foods that are not the most healthy choices. Moderate exercise on a daily basis, if possible, is strongly recommended, from milder forms such as walking to more energetic activities like swimming or tennis. October 12 people of both sexes must beware of problems with the back, kidneys and lower digestive system, and for women, the ovaries and bladder.

Advice

Remember to take the feelings of others into account. Be mindful of the needs of those close to you. Unconditional love is a worthy goal to which to aspire.

Meditation

What would be the most difficult single thing for you to live without?