Secret Language of Birthdays & Relationships

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Rene Eitzen, 36

From: Cape Town, South Africa

Male looking for Male in Romance

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The Secret Language name for November 15 is:

Considerate Encounter

Since 1701, this very rare name has only been given the poeple born on this day in these years: 1747, 1784, 1840, 1896, 1933, 1989

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Those born on November 15 repeatedly face challenging life experiences and intense encounters with people, often people they have never met before. Being prepared is thus a big item for those born on this day, whether it be a general readiness for unforseen circumstances or a conscious planning for scheduled events. November 15 people may be known as confrontational types because they rarely, if ever, avoid a challenge or back down in a disagreement for the sake of comfort or convenience. They are ready to stand up for themselves and in addition, they are stalwart champions of those who need their protection. Yet they are also willing to walk away from pointless arguments or no-win situations that would only compromise their dignity. Their real strength lies in defense, with the threat of retaliation their most potent weapon. Others instinctively feel that these are people who, like a wasp’s nest, are better left undisturbed. Most November 15 people can display great patience. They recognize the importance of waiting for the right moment to act, and rarely miscalculate. To others they may seem overly grave and measured, acting as if they believe that their whole life can come crashing down as the result of an error. Indeed, fear plays an important part in their prudence, for they know instinctively what to be realistically afraid of. Not surprisingly, November 15 people can make dangerous partners in love relationships. They are hardly lacking in charm or sophistication, but such attributes often hide a more volatile interior than anyone would ever suspect. This side of their character may be revealed suddenly and by surprise, occasioning great alarm. However, it also lends excitement and fire to their emotional range. November 15 people have a feeling for the apocalyptic. Either they expect the worst, or at the very least have a good idea of what the worst can be. Explosions of all sorts seem to recur in their lives, and they themselves can be accused of erratic behavior. Perhaps it is simply that when November 15 people have to move, others must get out of the way. With startling speed and secrecy, those born on this day are capable of appearing and disappearing like a will-of-the-wisp in the night. Those who value security may be taking a chance choosing such a person for a love relationship, but those who like excitement may have found their mate. November 15 people often make an issue of honorable behavior. Yet the temptations for them to act otherwise can be overwhelming. Consequently, the twin issues of honesty and integrity figure strongly in their lives, and raise internal battles which only they can fight. Guilt is not, however, especially troubling to them—rather not having prepared properly for an eventuality bothers them far more.

Numbers

Those born on the 15th day of the month are ruled by the number 6 (1+5=6), and also by the planet Venus. Those ruled by the number 6 tend to attract admiration and can even inspire worship. However, for November 15 people the dual influence of Venus and Pluto (Scorpio’s ruler) can produce all sorts of dangerous and disturbing elements, albeit exciting and enticing, in their love life. In this respect they should beware of addictive (particularly sexually addictive) tendencies.

Archetype

The 15th card of the Major Arcana, The Devil, indicates a fear/desire dynamic working where sexual attraction, irrationality and passion are concerned. The Devil holds us slave through our need for security and money; he represents our base nature grasping for security; he controls us through the irreconcilable differences which exist in our male/female nature. The positive side of this card is sexual attraction and the expression of passionate desires. But the card reminds us that although we are bound to our bodies, our spirits are free to soar. November 15 people must beware of calling up physical challenges which they are unable to handle.

Health

Those born on November 15 may have to rethink their emotional stance. By provoking confrontations or threatening (even unspoken) retaliation they can put themselves under enormous stress. Since those born on this day may be accident- and violence-prone, they should not only take more care than most when in physical motion, but also consider what it is in their makeup which occasions such incidents. As far as diet is concerned, the eating of a great deal of red meat is not a good idea, and sugar intake should be kept within reasonable limits. Grains such as rice, wheat (pasta) and corn should be stressed; hearty foods such as breads, vegetable soups and stews are likewise recommended. Vigorous exercise can be helpful in working off excess energy and aggression, but care should be taken with competitive sports and martial arts.

Advice

Psychological training is important for you. Reorient your aggressive impulses or fears. Try not to become threatened so easily. Be more self-assured. Gentleness and kindness may be indications of strength.