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The Secret Language name for July 8 is:

Trusted Dark Pragmatist

Since 1701, this very rare name has only been given the poeple born on this day in these years: 1719, 1775, 1812, 1868, 1905, 1961, 1998

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Those born on July 8 are pragmatic in the extreme. Thus they are more concerned with results than with theories. As founders or originators they are not only capable of building an organization, family or business but generally stick around to run it as well; indeed, maintenance is a major theme in their life and work, and the efficient running of their home or business is of the highest priority. Some July 8 people are interested in ideas, some not; ideals per se are not so important to these powerful people. Thus they run the risk of exploiting others for gain and perhaps heading in a sociopathic direction or manifesting an extreme mode of behavior, where the moral nature of actions is of little import and rarely considered. Generally speaking, religious matters are not of the greatest interest to them. July 8 people are hard workers who are likely to give their whole life over to one absorbing concern which can range from making a lot of money to establishing and running an organization or institution. Naturally their mate and family will benefit financially from such efforts but may have to be prepared not to see them much or enjoy their undivided attention. If, however, it is family which is the principal fixation of a July 8 person, their children and spouse may suffer from what amounts to overprotective or controlling behavior. July 8 people specialize in making themselves indispensable. Since their presence is so strongly felt by those around them during their lifetime, it persists long after their death as well. Death itself is often a theme in the lives of July 8 people, as either a powerful element in their work or something to prepare for in earnest. (The healthiest people born on this day maintain a sense of humor in dealing with such a serious topic.) Rarely will the families of July 8 people face destitution upon their demise, since their investments in insurance or other funds are usually wisely considered, and legacies and heirlooms passed along well cared for. More highly evolved people born on this day will also prepare their mates and children spiritually for such a time, being sure to leave behind good thoughts and memories, ideas and practical principles for guidance. In regard to their work, July 8 people must mind their ego drives. In addition, they must beware of imposing an often impressive presence on those around them, particularly those of a more delicate nature. Being too grounded in the physical plane holds back their spiritual development. They should guard against greed, cruelty, revenge, extreme aggression and all gross forms of physical behavior, as well as distancing or becoming incommunicative.

Numbers

Those born on the 8th of the month are ruled by the number 8 and by the planet Saturn. Since Saturn posits responsibility, and a sense of caution, limitation and fatalism, the conservative tendencies of July 8th people are further enhanced in this respect. Those ruled by the number 8 generally build their lives and careers slowly and carefully, certainly true in career and finance for those born on July 8th. Also since the number 8 can carry a saturnian coldness about it, July 8th people may give an impression of distance, while inside they really have a warm and giving heart; coupling the Moon’s influence (as ruler of Cancer) with these saturnian tendencies lends July 8 people high seriousness and a tendency toward isolation.

Archetype

The 8th card of the Major Arcana is Strength or Courage, which depicts a graceful queen taming a furious lion. The queen symbolizes the female Magician who can master rebellious energies and stands for moral as well as physical strength. This card’s positive attributes include charisma and determination to succeed; the negative qualities include complacency and the misuse of power.

Health

July 8 people must make an effort to get enough physical exercise. Too often they sit and rule their “empire” (home, business or organization) and forget the importance of remaining active. Not only will vigorous exercise keep down their weight and strengthen their circulatory system but also help them channel their aggression, instead of suppressing it. Both competitive sports (tennis, handball, even contact sports and martial arts) and achievement-oriented ones (running, gymnastics, swimming) are helpful in this respect. July 8 people should carefully adjust their diet to complement their work and exercise patterns.

Advice

Every so often, lighten up a bit and have fun with no practical goal in mind. Treat those close to you to a good time also, and not just as a reward either. Work out your aggressions in the context of fair play. If you need help, don’t be afraid to ask for it. Being able to admit to your weaknesses is a sign of strength.